This year, my birthday came with a full force realization of the challenges I face in trying to balance my life as a grown up, a mommy, a wife and a teacher, all while trying to squeeze in some fun with friends.
My day was bananas from start to finish.
7:03 AM: I wake up to Henry crying and realize that I have slept through my alarm.
I have ten minutes to get myself and Henry ready and out the door in order to make it to work on time.
That obviously didn't happen.
8:25 AM: I arrive to work 25 minutes late with no makeup on but a delicious Pumpkin Spice Latte and fresh fruit in hand thanks to my amazing mom.
I rush around my classroom, making sure everything is ready for the day.
I have a short gingerbread activity planned but otherwise, we have library every Friday and on this day, we also had a fun little walking field trip to the public library planned.
A double library day...
It should be nice and easy right?
Wrong.
8:50 AM: students arrive, some of my girls huddle together in the hallway, whispering.
It is evident that they are trying to plan something for me so I let them be for a while.
9:00 AM: I call the girls in from the hallway, apparently destroying their plan, (though I still don't understand what that plan was exactly).
9:03 AM: one of the girls is sitting at her desk, sobbing.
I call her to my desk and ask her what's wrong.
"We wanted to surprise you" she says, still sobbing.
"Sweetheart, please don't be sad. I'm sorry that the surprise didn't work out, but the best birthday gift you can give me is to smile and have a fun day."
It was a good try on my part but she didn't buy it and cried on and off for the next hour, literally.
I did my best to ignore her in hopes that she would snap out of it.
9:15 AM: A student screams, "It's snowing!" and 19 of my students, (all except the girl crying at her desk), begin screaming and running toward the windows.
I am powerless against these first snow falls of the season.
Snow is way too exciting for five-year-olds and the gingerbread activity I had planned for those next ten minutes flies right out the window.
9:25 AM: I tell my students to get their library books and line up.
9:35 AM: After several, "Mrs. Jansen, can I get a drink/use the restroom/will you tie my shoe"s, we arrive at the school library (late).
For some reason, the other kindergarten class is still there.
I volunteer to take them until their teacher gets back.
(Turns out she is outside chasing down a bus full of first graders who are headed to see The Nutcracker in order to deliver a message).
We go to their classroom and play a little impromptu math game called "Guess How Old Mrs. Jansen Is?"
Guesses range anywhere from 13 to 100.
By the time their teacher arrives back, I go to get my class from the library where they surprise me by singing "Happy Birthday" and the librarian pulls me aside to tell me that my class was great, "except for the girl who sulked the whole time", head back to our classroom to put away our books and grab our coats, we are already about ten minutes late for our field trip and the other kindergarten class has been standing in the hallway waiting for us.
10:10 AM: We walk to the public library, our students beside themselves with excitement to be out walking in the snow.
10:15 AM: We (finally) arrive at the public library.
10:35 AM: One of my students is injured during a game of charades and needs consoling and a walk to the drinking fountain.
(I love how water solves about 98% of problems with Kindergartners).
11:00 AM: Due to a series of unfortunate events, one of my students is crying and stomping her feet on the floor of the public library.
Oh boy.
11:30 AM: We are walking back to the school, (late of course), and encouraging our students to walk "briskly".
Now, one of my students is complaining that her knee hurts and is walking with a limp, (many, many feet behind everyone else).
I gently try to help her along by explaining to her how late we are, but to no avail.
In my desperation, I think about picking her up and carrying her but decide it just wouldn't look right to those parents waiting in their cars in the parking lot of the school.
Just to be clear, I do teach kindergarten, so that does mean that things do not always go as planned and occasional tears are to be expected but that many breakdowns, behavior problems and interruptions in one day is NOT typical by any means.
11:45 AM: All of my students make it safely (though late and not all of them happily) to their cars and I am relieved to have that part of my day behind me.
I rush around my classroom shutting things down for the weekend.
12:10 PM: I walk out the door carrying far too many things and feel something wet dripping down my arm.
I look down to see that the container of organic berries which my mom had packed for me has popped open and is now dripping all over my white down coat and into my purse.
So, not only have I not eaten yet today, but my uneaten breakfast is now punishing me.
12:30 PM: I feed Henry and my mom offers to make me something for lunch but I don't have time.
I leave Henry with her and rush home to collect our new kitty and take him to the vet.
(Yes, we have a new kitty! More on that another day...)
1:30 PM: I arrive at the vet, realize that I have forgotten all of the paperwork they asked me to bring, and in my distraction, leave my car running in the parking lot.
It didn't slow down from there.
After a $60 vet bill (for an appointment which was supposed to be free), I met my friend Emily to hang out for a short time.
Since I have been away from Henry for a while, I sit and pump while we chat.
After Christian arrived home from work, we rushed off to meet up with my mom and his parents for a Henry exchange, (his parents were taking Henry for the night).
I still had nothing to wear to my birthday party.
All week long I had intended to find the perfect costume. (Yes, that's right- costume-in December.)
Now I was out of time.
Sad.
I borrowed some clothes from my mom, threw some decorations from her house around my neck and we were off.
8:00 PM: We arrive (very late) to what ended up being the best birthday party ever.
Of course, it has already been 4 hours since the last time, so I go straight to the bathroom to pump again before I am able to hang out with my friends.
And this is how my day ended:
I am so thankful for my amazing friends, who bring so much joy and laughter to my crazy, busy life.
Here's hoping that 27 will bring few less days like that one and that somehow, I will be able to find some way to just SLOOOWWW IT DOWN.